♥ Queen of all Grumpy Old Farts ♥

About the GrumpyQueen

A.K.A Gatekeeper

I love food, don't deprive me of it.

I'm not Princess, I'm Queen

I can be quite grumpy and when I am, I hide here, my dungeon for reflections, ramblings and ranting.

Whatever I write are opinions, and may not be the whole truth. Do not read it like the Gospel.

I hate as vehemently as I love
I already know I'm crazy, be my friend, it's safer

Different is not bad, just not the same as the rest

If you don't like me, it's probably mutual
But I'm nice, really :p

Blog started 21st June 2007, shifted from www.thegatekeeperstory.blogspot.com

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Fate?

I've been going round in circles far too long. I really want to believe in fate, destiny and all that bull crap. Yea, fate and destiny may play a part but we can't keep making them take the rap for everything that goes wrong. If you fail, it means you didn't work hard, what does fate got to do with it? If you work hard and still fail, it means you probably used the wrong method. If you're sure you used the right method, worked hard and still failed, then maybe fate has something to do with it. But what are the chances of that happening?

Yea, I have a quote about friends being there for a reason, season or lifetime somewhere. Sometimes, when friendships do not make it, we should examine why and not blame fate. Sometimes, the only reason stopping a friend from staying for a lifetime is the unwillingness to talk about problems openly. Sweeping problems under the carpet cannot solve things. It only means you're damn good at convincing the whole world that there is no problem. There is a problem and that's you!

Honestly, I see no problem in pursuing the things you really want. It's when you persist stubbornly for too long and hurt too many people, that when it becomes a problem. If what will happen will happen anyway, I might as well spend time trying to achieve things. It's better than sitting around waiting for things to fall on your lap. If after doing all things possible, you still can't defy fate, then maybe things are really not meant to be.

29.1.07 11:24 PM

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