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Down with stereotypes!

Just read a friend's blog and decided to type my own wacky theories about hot boyfriends out. Mainly cos I'm so bloody sick of thinking of driving and my TP.

According to him... (his points in yellow)

Other women will try to sleep with him: I feel, in this case, it's the character that plays a bigger part. You can think of dating just average looking guys, why can't other women think of that? If everyone dates average guys so that other women won't sleep with him, then one day these average people will become hot property. Then because they never seen so many people going after them before, plus if they have morals of a dog, they may just cheat on you at the drop of a hat. Worse still, maybe they won't even wait for the damn hat!

His ego could be a problem: I think there are still ugly people out there because they've become numb to the criticisms. So they just live on their ugly ways and not change. So ugly already, how to change? There are no ugly or stupid people, only people who don't wanna improve. But that's not really my point. My point is, if ugly people can become numb to criticisms, good lookers will get sick of compliments.

Imagine being told you're good looking not once in a blue moon but every single damn time you meet someone new. It's almost like hearing, "wow you've got long/short hair!" It doesn't become a compliment, it becomes part of your daily small talk. Sooner or later, you'd want someone to see you for you really are, not how nice your face is. Eventually, you'd learn how to tell if someone likes you or your face. And when you find that rare someone, you'll stick to him/her like superglue.

I also feel that he'll not be egoistical but more critical of himself. Because he's been complimented so many times, he doesn't know how to live life if he becomes ugly one day. Like how to react when someone says you're ugly like shit? Errm, ok? So maybe everyday, he stares into the mirror thinking of how to improve himself and not become ugly. At worst, you'll just be dating a paranoid idiot who thinks everyone is staring at him 'cos of his big ugly pimple that popped out yesterday. And, "but baby, I'm sure they're looking at you 'cos you look good" will not work on such paranoids 'cos they're too severely deluded. Then in this case, you should either love the paranoid or dump him, it's your call.

And when you say, "hey you look good!" to someone and they say, "oh ok, thank you!" They're not acting dao or not trying to be egoistical bastards, they're just accepting the compliment graciously. What you expect them to do? Make themselves ugly?

On the other hand, have you seen people who're average looking/ugly like a prune trying too hard? Trying too hard to act yandao/chio that it becomes disgusting! I think they are the ones with the ego problems.

You'll become jealous and possessive, He can easily manipulate you, You'll be insecure: When you find someone who loves you for who you are, he/she will not be clingy. Because if they know who you are, they can trust you and know that what the both of you share is special. The good looking one will not attempt to manipulate the plain one because love is just not like that.

Ultimately, a face, pretty or ugly is only used for recognition. Look beyond someone's face and love the person, not just the face. Like they say, if you throw peanuts, you can only get monkeys. If you try to be someone you're not to hook a good looking bf, you can be sure of worrying endlessly if he's gonna cheat or not. Because you know how superficial the relationship is gonna be. When 2 souls are truely connected, the face doesn't matter anymore. Idealistic? Hahaha!

So go date all the good-lookers if you sincerely like one. Maybe he/she can improve your dress sense and you could be on your way to snagging the "Best looking couple" prize! Lalalala! Go be the envy of your friends! If he's your one true love, why are you running away?!

GOOD LOOKERS! How? PLEASE START AGREEING WITH ME!

And I am in no way trying to start a blog war with that friend of mine, I was just bored and decided to share my wacky theories.

If you can't understand my post and think I'm championing for the good lookers 'cos I'm just trying to justify my superficialty with something that looks like a remotely smart argument then I suggest you shoot yourself! Why will I try to disguise superficialty? Oh hell, if someone's so superficial, do they even think?

This is purely my speculation and opinion and I'm in no way suggesting that I'm good looking which is why I can argue for the good lookers. I'm not asking you to take my word as the greatest truth of life and worship it anyway.

22.10.07 9:32 PM

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